Ukuzingela ulutsha ngeSibhamu

Ndibe netyala lokubhaka iMveliso apha eIndiana ngokungangumntu olandelayo. Xa ndicinga umsebenzi wokuvelisa, ndinomfanekiso womntu okwi-coveralls esenza ulungelelwaniso lwemveliso yomhlangano wendibano ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Ukuqonda kwam mhlawumbi kwahlukile kulutsha kule mihla, nangona kunjalo.

Ukuveliswa kunye nokuhanjiswa kwezinto ayingomagama anomdla. Badala. Bayadika. Kunzima ukubafanisa ngenye indlela! Inyani yile yokuba ukuveliswa kwempahla kunye nolungiselelo lwayo ayisiyonto ikruqulayo, nangona. Ukuvelisa kulingana nokuguquguquka kwesantya esiphezulu. Amalungiselelo alingana neemodeli zesoftware ezintsokothileyo ezidityaniswe netekhnoloji ekhulayo enomdla njengeenkqubo zolwazi lwejografi.

ulutsha7Umbuzo ngulo lonke ilizwe liyitshintsha njani indlela urhulumente, abazali nabantwana abacinga ngayo ngawe xa abantu abaninzi bengazi ukuba uyintoni kanye kanye? Ngokuqinisekileyo, imikhankaso yokufaka uphawu lokuthengisa, ukuthengisa okuqhelekileyo kubantu abanefuthe kwezopolitiko kunye nootitshala baya kunceda. Kodwa ujolise njani kwabo bantu ufuna ukugcwalisa amakhulu amawaka emisebenzi kwiminyaka embalwa? Lowo ibingumbuzo endiwubuziweyo ngale mvakwemini… yintoni le ingalunganga!

Kwimeko efana ne-Indiana, apho i-hubris yekholeji yeminyaka emi-4 ihleli khona (yile nto siyaziwa ngayo, akunjalo?), Uzitsala njani iitalente ezisakhulayo kwiinkqubo zorhwebo nakwiikholeji zorhwebo zeminyaka emi-2? Ndicinga ukuba sisindululo esintlu-ntathu:

  1. Ukuqinisekisa abachaphazeliyo bayabuqonda ubunyani obukrakra bezibalo. Uninzi lwabafundi oluqala kwizikolo zeminyaka emi-4 alugqibi izidanga zabo. Kwaye kwabo babamba izidanga zabo ze-bachelor… uninzi lunobunzima ekufumaneni umsebenzi onentsingiselo. Umntu ophembelelayo othetha nomfundi wabo we-C + kwinkqubo yesidanga seminyaka emi-4 usenokungabenzi nto. Yipilisi enzima ukuyiginya!
  2. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba abazali bayawaqonda amathuba okuxoxa nabo nabantwana babo. Kwifayile yam eyonyana Isikolo wayengumfundi ongathathi ntweni-ke yayingumkhosi unkqonkqoza ekhayeni lakhe yonke imihla. UMthetho oYilwayo uqale e-IUPUI endaweni yoko ngoku utyatyambile waba liwonga eliphindwe kabini kwiMathematics nakwiFizikiki. Ukwaqala ukutsala umdla wokufunda kwaye usebenza ukufundisa abanye abafundi kwiYunivesithi.

    Inqaku lam nonyana wam yile-ukuba besingenazo izixhobo zokufunda kwakhe, ngewayethethwe ngokulula emkhosini. Ndiligqala kwaye andizisoli ngesigqibo- kodwa khange ndiqonde ukuba ndinokukhetha kwiminyaka yakhe. Wenza (kwaye wenza) unokukhetha! Ukuba inkqubo yesidanga seminyaka emi-4 ibingakhange isebenze, ngewayelilungelo elikhethekileyo lesikolo sezorhwebo (kutheni isandi sinje?). Mna naye khange siyiqonde loo nto, nangona.

  3. Eyona nto iphambili kuwo nawuphi na umzamo wentengiso kukujolisa kuko, ngokwako. Kulapho irabha ibetha khona endleleni. Andikhathali nokuba ubanefuthe kangakanani kubaphembeleli kunye nentengiso koomama nootata… ukuba awubafumani aba bantwana ebhodini, uza kusilela. Ke ubafumana phi? Facebook? Twitter? Ifowuni? Iimidlalo yevidiyo? Esikolweni? Amaqela oLutsha?

Ewe uyabafumana naphi na. Senze umsebenzi omhle ekufundiseni abantwana bethu ukuba bazakhele izazisi zabo, bacinge ngokwahlukileyo, bafumane ulonwabo… yiyo loo nto bayenzayo. Ungayifumana intombi yam ukuthatha imifanekiso nokwabelana nabo. UKatie uvavanya iividiyo ngekhamera yakhe yeFlip. Ewe kunjalo, kwi-Messenger ekhawulezileyo kunye neselfowuni. Ngenye imini, uya kudibana nabahlobo bakhe badlale Rock Band.

My Iibhloko zonyana (ngamaxesha athile), ukuFacebook kwaye ujoyina ezinye izihlobo zakhe zomculo kwiMySpace. Ngaphandle kwalonto, uya kumfumana kwii-hangout azithandayo, Indebe yeembotyi (wandifakela) Indlu yeWaffle… Ewe, Waffle House.

Abaselula banokhetho kule mihla kwaye balwela ukuzimela kwabo. Bambalwa kakhulu, ukuba bakhona, kubahlobo bonyana wam kunye nentombi yam abavukelayo njengoko senzayo ndisemncinci. Bonakele. Banokudlala. Bane-Intanethi. Banomnye nomnye. Abazithandi iimveliso okanye ukulawulwa kwazo. Bathanda ukuluhlaza. Bafuna ukusindisa uMhlaba… nokuba kuthetha ntoni na.

Ukungena kulutsha kule mihla kuthatha ngaphezulu kweendlela ezimbalwa zokucwangciswa kokungena ngaphakathi. Ndiyakhumbula xa yonke i-Nike kwakufuneka iyenze yayiqhuba ii-hightops zabo ezintsha kwi-movie ukuze bathengise ukuthengisa. Kule mihla, abantwana bafuna ukufumana izihlangu ezingenamntu.

Ukuba uza kuzingela ulutsha, kungcono uze nompu. Ukulawula Uphando, Youtube, Flickr, Facebook (inokuba indala kakhulu), MySpaceIndawo yomculo, ivenkile, imidlalo yevidiyo, iiselfowuni kunye neVenkile yeKofu yendawo okanye iWaffle House inokuba sisiqalo esihle!

Ingcebiso yam kukuba kunokuba lula ukubonelela ulutsha indawo be kunokuba uye apho baya khona are. Ndiyayazi indlela abantwana bethu ababenombulelo ngayo kumaqela olutsha engingqi nakwiCawe apho babenokuhlala khona, bathethe, badlale imidlalo yevidiyo, kwaye baxelelwe umyalezo omkhulu. Babengasoloko beza kumyalezo, kodwa bebeze omnye komnye! Loo ndawo ayidingi kuba sisiseko sezitena nodaka, inokuba yindawo entle kwi-intanethi.

Zakho iingcinga? Umfanekiso kunye neposti enkulu kwiNtengiso yoLutsha ifunyenwe kwibhlog ebonakalayo.

4 Comments

  1. 1

    Iposti enkulu! Indinika okungakumbi ukuba ndicinge ngako, ndineminyaka eliqela ngaphambi kokuba abantwana bam babe kwishumi elivisayo, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba iya kudlula ngaphambi kokuba ndiyazi. Ndicinga ukuba enye yezona zinto zimbi esizenzayo kukutyhala abantwana kwikholeji xa bengakulungelanga oko. Kukho ezinye iindlela: ezomkhosi, ezentengiselwano, imibutho yenkonzo.

  2. 2

    Kwakhona, ayinguye wonke umntu ofuna ukuba seofisini okanye elebhu imini yonke. Baninzi abantwana ababotshelelwe edesikeni kule minyaka ili-13 idlulileyo, abangathanda ukuphakama benze enye into ngaphandle kokuchwetheza. Ukuveliswa ayisibafundi beC kuphela. Ndiyabazi abantu abakrelekrele kwimisebenzi yorhwebo abangathanda ukuba phezulu kwaye benze into ebonakalayo.

    Indenza ndicinge ngeOfisi yendawo apho uPeter ekugqibeleni onwabile ngokusebenza kwiqela lokucoca endaweni yokuba esegumbini.

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      UMichelle,

      Unyanisile kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba andizanga ndiveze ukuba ngandlel 'ithile le misebenzi ibiphantsi kwabafundi abaphakathi. Inqaku lam lichasene noko - le misebenzi yomibini inomdla, ihambile phambili kwezobuchwephesha, ikhokelela kwimisebenzi ehlawula kakuhle kwaye AKUFUNI isidanga seminyaka emi-4. Ezinye zazo azidingi unyaka we-2!

      Ngokwenyani lushishini nje lokungahoywa. Wonke umntu ucinga ukuba ukuze uphumelele udinga iBachelor kule mihla. Ngelixa ndingathi leyo 'ngumgaqo-nkqubo we-inshurensi' olungileyo isenokungabi yeyona ndlela imnandi nenesiqhamo kulutsha olufuna umsebenzi ocela umngeni kwaye onomvuzo!

      Enkosi kakhulu ngeengcinga zakho!
      Doug

      I-PS: NDIYAYITHANDA Indawo yeOfisi!

  3. 4

    Iposi enkulu yedoug.
    Ukuba "wemileniyali" ndiyachaza. vumelana nayo yonke into oyithethileyo apha.

    Dibana nabo apho bakhoyo, kwaye uthathe umgca wecoke ngalo mpu. Uya kuyidinga.

    Ileta yokulayisha yePC ithetha ntoni i $ $ # # oko kuthetha ntoni?

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