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Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, ndayeka ukukhangela abalandeli kunye nabalandeli. Anditsho ukuba ukuthi andifuni ukuqhubeka nokufumana oku kulandelayo, ndithetha nje ukuba ndiyekile ukujonga. Ndayeka ukulungiswa kwezopolitiko kwi-intanethi. Ndayeka ukuphepha ungquzulwano. Ndiyekile ukuzibamba xa ndinoluvo oluqinileyo. Ndiqale ukunyaniseka kwinkolelo yam kwaye ndigxile ekunikezeleni ngexabiso kwinethiwekhi yam.

Oku akwenzekanga nje kubaphulaphuli bam beendaba zentlalo, kwenzeka nakwishishini lam ngokunjalo. Abahlobo, abathengi, amaqabane… ndiye ndemka kubantu abaninzi. Ndilahlekelwe bubuhlobo bam, abalandeli abaninzi, kunye nabalandeli abaninzi - ngonaphakade. Kwaye iyaqhubeka. Ngobunye ubusuku ndaxelelwa ukuba andikho semthethweni kuFacebook kwaye kunjalo ayipholi. Ndazisa umntu ukuba bangayeka ukundilandela nanini na.

Inyani yile, andifuni kuziphatha njengomntu andizami ukukhohlisa abantu ukuba bandilandele. Andilandeli nabanye abantu endibabukeleyo bexolisa oku kulandelayo. ZiyiVanilla… kwaye ndiyayithanda iRocky Road.

Abantu bayayiphambanisa imbeko kunye negunya njengobuchule kunye nokuphola. Andifuni ukubeka iinzame ekubeni-ndinokwazi, ndifuna ukuba nothando kunye nokunyaniseka. Emsebenzini, andifuni ukuzingqunga nabantu abathi ewe… ndiyabahlonipha abantu ngakumbi xa beyeka ukudanisa kwaye bandixelele ukuba akukho nto ndiyifunayo. Ukuba ufuna ngenene ukuba ndikugxothe uphume ngomnyango, yiba nolwazelelelo okanye ungathembeki. Akukho mathuba wesibini.

Xa ndicinga ngabantu endibahloniphayo kwi-intanethi, kukho into efana nabo. Nazi ezinye ezimbalwa ngaphezulu kwentloko yam:

  • Seth Godin - akukho nto imisa uSeti ekuchazeni uluvo lwakhe. Ndambona ejongana nomlandeli ogqithisileyo wakha wakrwela umgca entlabathini kwaye akazange avume ukuba kudlule.
  • Guy Kawasaki - malunga neminyaka emi-6 eyadlulayo, ndenza izimvo nge-esile elilumkileyo malunga neqela likaGuy labantu elithumela i-tweet kuye. Wadubula kwangoko wakwenza kwacaca ukuba ngubani osemva kwekhibhodi.
  • UGary Vaynerchuk -Ucacileyo, ongathandabuziyo nasebusweni bakho-UGary uhlala exelela abaphulaphuli bakhe into ekufuneka beyivile.
  • Jason Falls -Akukho nto yokumisa uJason. Ixesha.
  • UNichole Kelly - eli bhinqa liphezulu… libala, lihlekisa njengesihogo, kwaye kwakhona - alunakuzibamba.
  • UChris Abraham Ndiqinisekile ukuba mna noChris sinempendulo efanayo nanini na xa sibona iposti yezopolitiko ebhalwe ngomnye. Akaze abuye umva kwaye unyanisekile kwaye unomdla.

Andiqinisekanga ukuba ngaba omnye waba bantu unjengam (ndiyazi ukuba abanye babo bayayicekisa ipolitiki yam). Kodwa ayinamsebenzi kuba mna lihlonele igunya lazo. Ndiyazi ukuba xa ndifuna impendulo ethembekileyo, aba ngabantu abambalwa abangasoze bavuthe umsi. Abazukugqobhoza amagama… bazakuyithetha.

Kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo, ndiye ndafunda ukuba umthengi owonwabileyo ayi soloko unamathela. Umthengi ofumana iziphumo ezintle, nangona kunjalo, uhlala ethe nca. Umsebenzi wam ayikokuba ngumhlobo wabaxhasi, kukwenza umsebenzi wam. Ngamanye amaxesha kufuna ukuba ndibanike imali xa kusenziwa izigqibo ezingalunganga. Ukunikwa ukhetho lokufuna intlonipho kunye nokuqinisekisa iziphumo OKANYE ukuba ishishini labathengi bam lenzakale kwaye basitshise-ndiya kuhlala ndibanika iindaba ezimbi.

Ngaba indilimazile kwimidiya yoluntu? Kuxhomekeka ekubeni uthetha ukuthini buhlungu. Ukuba umlinganiso wakho wempumelelo ngumlandeli kunye neakhawunti yomlandeli-ewe ewe. Andiyilinganisi impumelelo ngale ndlela, nangona kunjalo. Ndiyilinganisela ngenani leenkampani esizincedileyo, inani lezindululo esizifumanayo ngomlomo, inani labantu abanyukayo ukuza kundibulela emva kwentetho, inani lamakhadi enkosi axhonywe eludongeni lwethu sebenza (sinayo yonke into!) kunye nenani labantu abaye banamathela kum kule minyaka idlulileyo.

Intlonipho kunye negunya azidingi sivumelwano okanye ubuchule. Ndinabathengi abakhulu, abasebenzi abakhulu, abafundi abakhulu, kunye nabahlobo abaninzi, abalandeli kunye nabalandeli endibadingayo ebomini.

Nyaniseka kubaphulaphuli bakho. Yiyo kuphela indlela yokunyaniseka kuwe.

PS: Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ngubani andimhloniphi kwi-Intanethi… uluhlu lude kakhulu. Okwangoku, umphezulu woluhlu lwam UMat Cutts. Ayisiyonto yobuqu… andinakuma ngokuchanekileyo kwezopolitiko, ukulinganiswa ngononophelo, iimpendulo ezibhaliweyo kwimibuzo ngokubanzi. Ndibuze uMat imibuzo eliqela ekhankanyiweyo kule minyaka idlulileyo kodwa, kuyabonakala ukuba amanqaku am eKlout awaphakamanga ngokwaneleyo ukuba angaze aphendule. Ndihlala ndimbona encokola nobani. Mhlawumbi yinto endiyithethileyo… andazi kwaye andikhathali.

Yongeza kolu luhlu nabani na oqhubeka nokuthatha iifoto zabo ngokwabelana ngalo lonke usuku okanye athethe ngaye emntwini wesithathu. Ukuba babelana ngesicatshulwa sabo, ndifuna ukubahlaba emqaleni. Thetha nje.

3 Comments

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    Ewe, kufuneka nditsho ukuba iposi yakho indikhuthazile-ubuncinci ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndifumane impendulo. Ngokuqinisekileyo - yinyanisekile kuwe. Kuphela kwendlela yokonwabela ngokwenene umsebenzi wakho. Inye nje into eyandixakayo kodwa yayi right ekugqibeleni. Awubathandi abantu ababelana ngeengcaphuno zabo. Unomdla. Ndihlala ndivuka kwangethuba ndinengcinga enzulu okanye ezimbini, ezinye zazo ezindishukumisa ngokwenene. Ngoku ndiyazi ukuba abanye basenokungachukumiseki kangako, kodwa ndingathanda ukuva oko kusezintliziyweni zabo, kunokufunda izinto eziye zahlaziywa kwabanye (ngokuqhelekileyo zivela kwabo babizwa ngokuba ngabantu abadumileyo). Iingcinga zam nje.

    sean

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      Molo @successability:disqus. Andichasananga nabantu abakhulu 'ukuba' nokucaphula… kuxa kanye bethumela ikowuti, kunye namagama, kunye namagama abo kuyo ukuze abanye babelane. Kubonakala ngathi i-narcissistic - uluvo lwam nje. Ungandicaphula kulonto 😉

  2. 3

    “Andifuni kwenza nzame ukuze ndifane, ndifuna ukuba nomdla kwaye ndinyaniseke. ”

    Ndiyayithanda le nto, nam. Ndihlala ndifunda amanqaku acebisa umgangatho wabaphulaphuli ngaphezu kobuninzi. Kubonakala ngathi abantu abaninzi abaphumeleleyo bafumana ukuba kukho abantu kubo kwaye banamathele kubo endaweni yokuzama ukukholisa wonke umntu. Isithuba esihle.

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