Tyala imali ebantwini. Awuyi kutyhafiswa.

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Ndiqhule nabantu abambalwa ukusukela oko ndaqhawula umtshato (kunye nokupheliswa kwezinto zam zehlabathi), ndichithe iminyaka yam emi-5 ndityala imali ebantwini. Oko kunokuvakala kungaqhelekanga, kwaye ngethemba lokungazicingeli, kodwa ndiziva ukuba ngokujolisa ingqalelo yam kubacebisi, abahlobo, kunye nosapho- ukuba ndizakuphila ubomi obunesiqhamo.

Umhlobo wam, uTroy, undibuze phezolo ukuba yintoni le ndichithe ixesha lam elininzi ndicinga ngayo. Iminyaka emi-5 okanye eli-10 eyadlulayo, inokuba ibingumsebenzi, imali, okanye 'into yokudlala' elandelayo. Kodwa ndimphendule ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ngabantwana bam. Unyana wam sele ejonge ezinye iinkqubo kwi-IU kwaye uzakuba kunyaka wakhe wokugqibela. Intombi yam nayo iqala ukubumba iingcinga zayo kwikamva- ucinga ngomhombiso wangaphakathi okanye ubugcisa kunye nemisebenzi yobugcisa. Andithandabuzi ukuba nantoni na eyenziwayo ngabantwana bam baya kuphumelela kuyo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bam bakhalaza ngalo lonke ixesha endilichitha kwikhompyuter okanye emsebenzini - kodwa inyani ayikho ixesha elininzi elidlula kusuku lwam ngaphandle kokubonisa ukuba ndingutata obaluleke kangakanani na.

Iintsapho zicinga ukuba abantwana bam bakhulu kakhulu ngenxa yam. Lonto indenza ndihleke ... andiqondi ukuba kunjalo kwaphela. Ndikhe ndangqongwa kwiminyaka yakutshanje ngabacebisi abamangalisayo, abahlobo, usapho kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iingcali ukundinceda ndikhulise abantwana bam. Kananjalo, banomama owoyikekayo oye wabelana ngokulula namava akhe nabo ukubanceda bafumane ukuqonda ukuze bangabeki emngciphekweni wokuthatha izigqibo ezifanayo ebomini babo. Kum, lutyalo-mali oluza kuhlawula ngcono kunayo nayiphi na idola endinokuze ndiyifumane ebomini. Ndingonwabile ukuhlala ubomi bendlala ukuba ndiyazi ukuba abantwana bam, usapho lwam kunye nabahlobo bam bonwabile.

Ke… olo lutyalo-mali lwam ebomini. Ndicinga ukuba ndinendawo ezimalunga nama-30 ngoku endisindisela abahlobo kunye nosapho. Yinto andinalo ixesha elininzi ukuyenza njengoko ndingathanda, kodwa ndizama ukwenza konke okusemandleni endinako ngezixhobo endinazo. Yimali yam encinci kulonwabo lwabo.

Namhlanje, ndiphehlelele ibhlog yomhlobo wam, uPat Coyle. UPat ngumntu ebendinolonwabo lokusebenza naye iinyanga ezimbalwa. Ukuqonda kwakhe usapho, uThixo, umsebenzi, kunye nentengiso zizinto endizithandayo njengomhlobo. Andikwazi ukukuxelela ukuba ndifunde kangakanani kwaye ndikonwabele ukusebenza noPat ngexesha elifutshane endilwenzileyo. Ke… ndiyilahlile indlela yakhe… ndibeka ibhlog apha http://www.patcoyle.net. Ibhlog kaPat ibizwa ngokuba 'bubomi bam njengoMthengi'. Mhlawumbi yayikukuzingca okuncinci ukubeka ibhlog kaPat kunye nokujija ingalo yakhe ukuba aqhubeke nokuthumela! Inyani yile, ndijonge nje ukufumana ngaphezulu kwale ngcebiso kuPat endiyifumana yonke imihla xa ndisebenza naye! Nokuba yeyiphi indlela-ndiyathemba ukuba uyayijonga ibhlog kaPat ngokunjalo.

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