Umndilili Wokufikisa?

nguSete ngcaciso namhlanje kwinqaku elivela kwi- LA Times. Inqaku elineenkcukacha kakhulu kubantwana abaneminyaka eli-12 ukuya kwengama-24 ubudala.

Into enomdla kukuba, inqaku liyathetha nabantwana baphuma eHollywood… kodwa unyana wam (17) ulapha eIndiana! Uya kufumanisa ukuba amawaka eemayile afumana umahluko omncinci phakathi kwezi zimbini, nangona. Ngalo naluphi na usuku olunikiweyo, nantsi into oya kuyifumana isenziwa ngunyana wam:
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  • Umyalezo wangoku
  • Ukuhlaziya eyakhe MySpace
  • Ukuhlaziya eyakhe Blog
  • Ukurekhoda umculo wakhe (Jonga IBillKarr.com)
  • Ukubhala umculo nabahlobo bakhe
  • Ukuxuba umculo usebenzisa iAcid Music Studio
  • Ukuya kwimiboniso (iikonsathi ezincinci)
  • Ukunika ingxelo kwezinye i-MySpaces
  • Mamela umculo
  • Ukuthetha kwifowuni
  • Dating
  • Ukuzama Ukuthandana
  • Ukufunda ukuqhuba
  • IQela loLutsha leCawa
  • Ukufunda (ndimenza afunde… kodwa uyaqala ukuza)

UMthetho oYilwayo uphuma kunye nabahlobo abambalwa ngoku kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya. Ukuya kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya kuyinto enqabileyo, nangona… kusika kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lomculo. Ungaqaphela into enye engekho kuluhlu lwakhe… TV. Kuya kufuneka ndimcele ukuba eze kubukela umboniso weTV nam! Unyana wam ukrelekrele ngendlela emangalisayo, unentliziyo entle, kwaye usempilweni. Kwixesha elidlulileyo, wayedlala ibhola ekhatywayo, ibasketball, baseball, skateboarding, rollerblading, njl. Njlk.

Ngaphandle kwengcinezelo evela kum, unyana wam unesimilo kwaye ungumntu ophakathi kwabantu. Zonke izihlobo zakhe ziyafana. Banohlobo olwahlukileyo lomculo, impahla, iinwele, izihlangu, njlnjl… zonke ezo aziqhelekanga. Ngapha koko, olona tshaba lukhulu lutshaba. Okundibuyisela kwizimvo zikaSeth:

Ukuba uxakekile kwintengiso ngokungathi unomdla wam, sele wenze impazamo enkulu.

Unyana wam kufuneka abe liphupha elibi lomthengisi. Phantse yonke 'incasa' yakhe ivela kwindlela aziphethe ngayo, kwaye akukho nanye kuyo ngentengiso ephambili. Eneneni yinto yokucinga! Andiqondi ukuba unyana wam uyadika. Ngapha koko, ndicinga ukuba yinto eyahlukileyo. Uzama ngokupheleleyo ukwenza into enemveliso yonke imizuzu yemihla ngemihla. Uphila ubomi ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye akafuni ukuchitha nokuba yeyiphi na iyure.

Kwaye… ngokungafaniyo nootata abaninzi bonyana abakwishumi elivisayo, akandigxeki. Uyakusifumana sihleka kwaye sihlekisa ubusuku ngabunye. Andinakuze ndimbhalele njengomndilili- yindoda emnandi endizithembileyo ukuba iya kuphumelela kakhulu ebomini.

I-PS: Kusafuneka ndimngxolise ukuze ayikhuphe inja, kodwa ndiza kujongana nalo naluphi na usuku xa kuthelekiswa noko kwakufuneka utata akwenze!
I-PPS: Ndinentombazana eneminyaka eli-12 ubudala enomtsalane ngokulinganayo, kodwa ndiyayigcina ikwi-intanethi.

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